Man and woman 2023, March

If a man throws tantrums, yells and is capricious instead of adequately expressing his emotions, he has a problem. But what if a woman has already found herself next to such a person? The situation was commented on by a social psychologist, an expert on gender and family relations, Alexander Shakhov

Social media, on the one hand, opens up a million new possibilities. But they also have a downside: often we spend too much time in them, we follow other people's lives, including our former partners. It seems to you that this is a banal curiosity, but everything is not so simple. Psychotherapist Tata Feodoridi tells about why it is bad, what it is fraught with and how to get rid of it

Shared bed, bathroom, kitchen and toothbrushes are side by side. Living together is a new round in a relationship that tests them for strength and makes it possible to understand whether they have a future. What is critical and what is not, when it is worth giving in, and when it is necessary to defend our personal boundaries, we discuss with Nadezhda Dragan, psychologist, coach, member of the International Coaching Association

Biological age does not mean that a woman does not want love, it is our natural need. But for some reason, many believe that after 40 or 50 years it is too late to think about women's happiness. This stereotype, seasoned with bad experience of past relationships and a load of problems, makes many people put an end to their personal lives. And this is wrong

You are self-sufficient, straightforward, strong, intelligent. You have almost everything that a mature man would want from a woman. But it looks like you also hold high standards in relationships, don't you? After all, in the evening you come home, look around an empty apartment with a sad look and go to bed, so that tomorrow you can continue to conquer the world. Why is it difficult for strong and self-sufficient women to meet their man - successful, decent, reliable?

We, women, are so flexible, soft and forgiving, kind and understanding that sometimes representatives of the opposite sex sit more comfortably on our fragile neck, dangle their legs and begin to chat with them cheerfully. And we endure, wait, hope and believe that everything will change and the man just decided to "take a break". Stumbled, what to do! But is there a line when you need to show an obscene sign to a dear and adored man and send it to hell? What can be forgiven him, and what should not be forgiven?

Where to meet a successful man who you want to fall in love with and get married? On the street or in public transport? Too incredible … With friends? You have known everyone there for 100 years, and you have not noticed the candidates. At work? Well, no, an affair with your boss is bad manners! In a restaurant or bar? There, men are more likely to seek adventure than a woman for a serious relationship. There is only one place left. Without geographic boundaries and social conventions, this is a worldwide network

Clothes flew to the sides, the skin was on fire after kisses, the heart was ready to jump out of the chest, and there was not enough air … Everything was so wonderful, passionate, bright, if not for one "but" - you just cheated on your man with another. And it is no longer so important what feelings and emotions you experienced at that moment, because the memories of caress and interweaving of bodies fade before the harsh look of conscience when treacherous guilt obscures everything around. What to do? Confess to your man? Say nothing but

“Love is like playing the piano. First you have to learn to play by the rules, then forget the rules and play with all your heart. " So dating has some rules too. Which? Uncovering Psychological Tricks to Ensure Your First Date Isn't Your Last

At times, relationships start with confrontations … especially when it comes to romantic comedies. But life is not a movie. So on one of the first dates, sitting at a table with an interesting man, it is worth remembering some behavioral moments, which for the most part do not cause affection at all in the opposite sex

Speaking of bachelors, women all over the world primarily represented handsome George Clooney. But, when even his armor fell before the charming Amal, the weaker sex had a hope that not all convinced bachelors are so unapproachable. However, not all of them are like Clooney, but many are more like Anatoly Wasserman. So, five common myths about bachelors that are long overdue to dispel

Men express love differently than women. Admirable glances, a sea of compliments and flowers, restaurants and the Maldives - this is testosterone, passion and love, the psychologist and popular blogger Alexander Shakhov is sure. He claims that "hormonal love" lasts an average of 1 to 6 months. Whether a real feeling will arise during this time is a big question. The expert described 6 signs by which you can understand that a man really loves

Hundreds of girls dream that men would be jealous of them, seeing this as the best proof of strong feelings. To be honest, sometimes we ourselves try to provoke our loved ones into jealousy. However, when you are jealous, the situation does not seem so pleasant at all. And if this feeling develops into an obsession, then it's time to change something in life

To marry for love a wealthy man - isn't this a dream come to life? But “status obliges,” and rich people think in special categories, this also directly relates to the choice of a wife. And there are several types of girls that the attention of millionaires is mainly directed to

"Sorry, I won't be anymore!" - this phrase works when it comes to a mother and son who broke her Bohemian glass vase. But in a relationship with a man, this will no longer help: there are things that are very difficult for them to forget. Eva.Ru decided to figure out which female tricks are actually on the list of prohibited tricks

On the first date, we all try desperately to impress the other person. We use all our charm, shoot with our eyes, laugh provocatively and sometimes do not even suspect that we are using absolutely wrong tactics of behavior and instead of delight we cause only annoyance and irritation in the satellite. Think of the brilliant Kate Hudson in How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. In general, here they are - bad advice. With them, the term will be reduced to one single day. Read and do not de

It is customary to write legends about female deceit - they say, for the sake of a goal, we are ready for anything. But in fact, not only we are so cunning. Men are excellent at manipulating relationships with women. Moreover, their deceit is completely invisible to the victim, since their weapons are not tears at all

The girlfriends sigh meaningfully and think about such a girl: “Everyone is crazy about her! How does this happen?" She, of course, will not answer, she will smile and run on - there are still so many unconquered male hearts ahead. But we will tell you how you can captivate the stronger sex once and for all

The first impression is the most correct, so a particularly vigilant woman needs to be on the first date. But even if your relationship has gone a little further, it's not too late to look closely at your man and think if there is something strange in his behavior? And what if it is there?

Folk wisdom: if you want to get something from a man, tell him about it directly, he himself will never guess. Did he refuse? Go to plan B. Use heavy artillery - absolutely all men lose their heads from these six feminine tricks. And here you can do whatever you want with them

Mercedes de Acosta is a famous star seducer. She won the hearts of Greta Garbo, Marlene Dietrich, Isadora Duncan, Tamara Krasavina. And while she was married! And then she herself found a mistress for her annoying husband. What is her secret? And why was her bed never empty? Text: Daria Karimova

Carrie Bradshaw had three best friends, but psychologists are convinced that this is not enough. To be happy, any girl needs at least five different friends, with whom you can go to fire, to water, or to a karaoke club

There are few princes, and there is not enough of them for all … So it's time to take the bull by the horns, draw up a catchy profile and post it on a dating site. We come up with a name, choose a photo (no, not nude!), Do not hesitate to age and plunge into virtual love. And there, you see, and not far from the wedding

Popular wisdom says: "A smart woman looks after herself, and a stupid woman looks after her man." But no! An intelligent woman is one who finds out about the danger in time and decides whether she wants to fight for her family or whether she needs to be the first to call a lawyer

Men. We will never understand them. Not a single man in a nightmare can imagine himself as a mother's son, but in fact there are many of them. And if his strong relationship with his family at first won you over, allowing you to dream of the same attitude towards you, now you are not so sure of your own happiness. But before you leave your husband and mother-in-law on the sidelines of life, you can study the basics of their relationship and make an attempt to “demarcinate” your loved one with your mother, or leave everything as it is and learn to be happy

No one wants to grow old alone, and finding the very person with whom you will live your whole life and die in one day seems to be the most important thing in life. Until the first divorce. Having burned ourselves once, we begin to approach the choice of partners more carefully, and at the same time bypass the doors of the registry office, fearing the new stamp more than leprosy. But what exactly scares those who have gone through fire, water and copper pipes in a new marriage?

The truth that men are from Mars and women are from Venus has already been confirmed many times by psychologists, who draw attention to significant differences in our thinking and behavior. Indeed, we are so different that sometimes you wonder how as soon as we manage to successfully coexist in one space, especially when every now and then you come across manifestations of the same male worldview, which from time to time is very tiresome

When we hear the word "gigolo", a kind of brave man immediately appears before our eyes, a macho man with an impeccable figure, steel buttocks and a slight tan, who preys exclusively on indecently rich ladies. Alas, this is nothing more than a stereotype. In real life, gigolos do not look at all brutal, and ordinary women are also chosen as victims. A stable income, a residence permit in an apartment and clean socks - this is quite enough to become a worthy object of their attention

In our society, men are still often associated with "earners", and their ability to provide for a family is associated with masculinity. And therefore, situations where the husband's income becomes less than the wife's income can greatly undermine the marriage. If He is unable to earn a living for His family, then how can He be a "real man"? And how can wives live in peace with their desires, capabilities and aspirations, if they have to look back now and then?

My mother told me: men are divided into two types: those who can raise the refrigerator to the fifth floor, and those who can pay for it. However, having matured, I realized that not everything is so simple: there are many men and their varieties! For example, these

It is difficult to imagine that there are couples who have never had disagreements. But if it is impossible not to swear, then you need to learn how to correctly respond to a tense situation, trying not to go over to shouting and retaliatory insults. How? Immediately cool your partner's ardor by using an effective strategy for dealing with angry people

Usually a woman in the first months after a divorce thinks: get married again? Never! And then suddenly an irresistible man appears on the horizon, and doubt arises in the soul. And maybe with this person the stamp in the passport will turn out not to be sadness, but joy? … Listen to psychologists - they believe that a second marriage has much more advantages

We all want to believe in the tale of the eternal love and ideality of our partner. However, over time, the first euphoria of falling in love passes, and everyday life brings to the surface what was previously safely hidden behind the screen of the candy-bouquet period. And if we are still ready to put up with some of the "cute" shortcomings of our chosen one, then there are those who are echoed in the brain with the first alarming chime, hinting that it is time to collect belongings and run without looking back, before it's too late

We take out a pen, a piece of paper and write … a letter to a loved one! To keep the relationship in marriage not dull and sharp and hot, like the Vietnamese pho bo soup, they need to be periodically rebooted. Writing is one of the options to disrupt the routine. Read about others, no less effective, in our article

The fact of friendship between a man and a woman has been controversial in society for many years. Some say that warm companionship can only connect people of the same sex, others say the opposite. But be that as it may, if you believe the polls, then about 60% of people who have friends of the opposite sex, at least once, have experienced sexual attraction to them. Therefore, it often happens that yesterday's friends turn into lovers

This story is as old as the world: a young man meets a girl, they fall in love and spend the rest of their lives together in blissful harmony. But even the story of Romeo and Juliet is better than real life, which just doesn't follow these rules. No, reality often looks like this: we meet each other, fall in love and … we start to be at enmity. How to understand from the first dates that a relationship is doomed to failure?

Hundreds of films are released annually, which in one way or another impose the fashion for free relationships on modern people. And if you believe the beautiful picture, then in the final there will certainly be a happy ending with flowers, a ring and adult actions. But can an open relationship replace a strong bond and is the desire to maintain independence more important than the usual "lived happily ever after"?

The modern world gives us a lot of new terms, which often cause not only bewilderment, but also annoyance. For example, micro-change. What is it and why is she, despite the leveling prefix "micro", is a very dangerous enemy even on the path of the strongest family relationships

Doggy style, from a male point of view, is one of the most attractive sex positions. Why it is she who symbolizes real passion is so clear, but the fact that the partner always reaches orgasm if the man from behind is a controversial statement

Much has been said about the pros and cons of romantic relationships in the workplace. Someone says that such intrigues eventually develop into strong marriages, and someone is sure that work and personal life cannot be combined in any case, because such an experiment will not have a good ending anyway